Sugar Addiction Help: My Easy Tips for How to Curb a Sweet Tooth
If you think there's no sugar addiction help for you, or there's no way you can learn how to curb a sweet tooth, wait 'til you hear my tip. I've been doing this for a few weeks now and it really works, I've even lost ten pounds!
I've always been a sweets freak.
Once I switched over to real food (read about my “food conversion” story here), there was a drastic difference right away, because when your body is nourished, especially with enough healthy fats, then your cravings naturally decrease, but at times over the years I still ate too many desserts.
My new incentive program…
There's a LOT of diabetes in my family, so that, along with my Mom's cancer diagnosis, has given me a new desire to get on top of this problem, almost a feeling of urgency. Maybe that's what has to happen in order for change to really kick in. (Read about which factors lower the glycemic index of foods so it won't produce as high of an insulin response: How to Eat Carbs Safely and Lower the Glycemic Index of the Foods You Love.)
I know that for me, though, giving up sweets forever won't happen.
I realize that many of you paleo peeps have done it (although most of you bake with almond flour or coconut flour and honey instead, which is still a sweet), but even though I eat much LESS than I ever have, I still like a treat now and then. Since my Mom's diagnosis, it's a little scary hearing myself justify still eating any sweets, but I also know that I have to be realistic, and I've come up with what is a really doable plan that has worked well for me…
My simple tips for how to curb a sweet tooth:
I don't think Michael Pollan gets the whole picture yet when it comes to healthy fats, but I came up with this tip for controlling my sugar consumption when I saw the following Michael Pollan quote again recently:
So here's how I minimize sugar in my diet:
1. Only eat sweets if you make it yourself — or if you're confident in the ingredients that were used to make it. This works because later when I am at home, I don't have a ton of extra time for baking! I'm assuming it's the same for most of us. Once in a while when there is time, then we can just enjoy it. No need for guilt when it's only once in a while and it's homemade. 🙂 Plus at home I can easily cut the amount of sugar in recipes, use more natural sugars, etc., and real food always tastes better anyway — check out my new book, Real Food for Rookies for help finding the right ingredients to stock in your kitchen. 🙂
2. Make sure it's worth it. Sometimes even if I know the ingredients are good, I still may not feel like indulging unless it's one of my very favorites. Even just one bite can be plenty for me. Having my tops fit nicely again feels too good to feast on just anything. Not to mention watching what my Mom is going through. 🙁
3. White wine is another sweet I really enjoy. Lately instead of drinking a whole glass when we're out to dinner, I'll have half a glass with the rest sparkling water. (Be sure not to ask for a “wine spritzer” at a restaurant, because for those they add Sprite!) Especially now that I'm not eating as many sweets, this glass of wine still tastes sweet to my taste buds.
What else I've been doing besides minimizing sweets…
4. I'm also minimizing grains, mostly only eating our bread at home unless it's reeeeally worth it (at home it's either my homemade recipe or more often these days it's made by our favorite baker), and usually one or less servings a day. I've gone back and forth on this issue, as my regular readers know (it's not easy figuring this stuff out!), but these days I don't think giving it up forever is best unless you have grain sensitivities, as long as you're eating the best grains possible. (I use mostly sprouted spelt flour or einkorn flour in my kitchen.) Note that I'm not minimizing carbs, just lowering grains a little. I'm still eating fruit, potatoes, rice, etc., which is sort of in line with the Perfect Health Diet principles, but they say no grains at all.
5. Working here on the blog keeps me so busy, along with homeschooling, and now taking care of Mom, that fitting in exercise is just so tricky lately! My new strategy for that is to always move when I'm at home and talking or working on my phone – I either go outside and walk, or just start doing squats. Then when I get back on the computer I don't feel like such a blob. In the wintertime I like to use my computer on the treadmill. My brother made ours, but I've heard good things about this treadmill desk, too.
Will this be enough to avoid diabetes or cancer?
Nobody knows, of course, but I have to at least TRY, right? We can't control everything, but why not control what we CAN?! I just don't understand why we wouldn't. But many don't think that way.
My friend, Katie, said it well in her recent post:
Let’s apply Pascal’s wager to food: Does what we eat impact our health, or not? Should we bother being cognizant about what we put in our mouths?
- Either food impacts our health or it doesn’t.
- Everyone has to choose – everyone eats – to avoid the choice is to choose the latter.
- If a someone who eats consciously is right, in the end, he wins (good health – hopefully – there are other factors like environment and genetics, of course, that impact our health). If he’s wrong, he’ll live the same long life that was always destined for him and never know the difference.
- If a Standard American Eater, one who cares little about what goes in his mouth, is right, in the end, he won’t believe that anything that happens to him is food-related and will never know the difference. He might live the same healthy 90+ years as the conscious eater, I suppose. But if he’s wrong…he’s a very sick man with many prescriptions…even though he’ll never know why.
- The only loss for a conscious eater is potentially some earthly pleasures (like doughnuts, ice cream, and time), but the possible gain of years of life.
- Therefore any rational person should live as though food makes a difference and do research to determine the healthiest diet possible.
The logic doesn’t transfer quite precisely, but in my book, the big picture is the same:
If I eat well and you don’t, and you’re right – I don’t lose much.
If I eat well and you don’t, and I’m right – what a bummer for you.
A rational person should pay attention to what they eat.
Read the rest of Katie's post here: Does Pascals Wager Apply to Food?
The only place I'd disagree with Katie is in #5, I think that there really is NO loss for a conscious eater, because we can make the same treats at home, and since it takes time, it naturally won't happen as often!
My favorite healthier ingredient substitutions:
- Grains: Some of you will need to use gluten free flours, lately my favorite (not GF) is a combination of sprouted spelt flour and einkorn flour.
- Pastured butter — I melt it to use in recipes.
- Palm sugar — Works and tastes the same in recipes but is less refined.
- Crispy nuts — That link shows an easy method of making them more digestible. I make them ahead and keep in the freezer.
- Pastured eggs
- Raw milk
- Real raw cream or at least NOT ultra pasteurized
Here's where I need YOUR tips, though…
How do we get our kids to choose to turn a treat down when we're not at home?! Should I stop fretting, knowing that at least they're getting a lot less junk now that we're homeschooling, and since what they get at home is minimal?
My friend David said it well the other day at bible study…
Being fit is important to me, but I can't force our kids to have the same mentality as I do, whether it's fitness, eating right, or most importantly, their faith in God. We just have to model it ourselves and pray.”
What else?
What else do you suggest to help make healthy habits important to our kids?
More:
- Cancer's Sweet Tooth from Mercola
- Check out the information on How to Reverse Diabetes
- Here's my Real Food Ingredient Guide for help finding the right ingredients to stock in your kitchen!
- Read about which factors lower the glycemic index of foods so it won't produce as high of an insulin response: How to Eat Carbs Safely and Lower the Glycemic Index of the Foods You Love
photo credit (adapted)
Kay says
I have six children; the oldest is nearly 13. I have worked very hard to cook from scratch and have them eat clean, whole food. So far, no one is overweight and seldom get sick (less than 5 ear infections in all!). I kept them off fast food, colorings, HFCS esp while their eating habits get established. We also homeschool and I do feel this has helped because kids are offered junk at every turn the minute you are involved in larger group activities; homeschooling just makes it easier to see that we do ‘our own thing,’ even how we eat lunch. Most of our activities with other families involve parents who truly respect that families do things differently and don’t push junk around randomly. Anyway, as my children have ventured out to various things/places, they find out quickly that soda, candy, cake etc just doesn’t make them feel as good so I feel like we are seeing the reward in our effort. They seem to have little tolerance for artificial anything – so I don’t have to worry much. They willfully reject offers and know that if they avoid the random junk, I will let them choose a treat they prefer (fresh fruit, homemade popsicles anyone?) when at home – but they can’t have it all! They also are learning the consequences when they go to the dentist and appreciate having no cavities! I am careful not to dwell on the negative – but instead emphasize the great things about fruits, veggies, and cooking from home. I’m not trying to control what they eat as much as send them out in the world with knowledge about the purpose of food so they can make choices themselves. No, I won’t have any money for retirement due to all the fresh fruit we buy, but so be it!
ValerieH says
I went on the South Beach Diet in 2004 and gained control over sugar. It used to control me. When I eat a low glycemic diet I am in control. I enjoy sweets but I can pass up a lot of it and stop before the end of the portion. I prefer eating them with coffee to balance the sweetness.
Philipp Merker via Facebook says
Pull it. Just pull that sucker out. Still have a sweet tooth? Pull that one out too…
Heather says
As far as tip for kids, I lean hard on the Proverbs verse that says “train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it.” I assume they will want to do what their friends are doing, and that if given a chance they will drink pop and eat candy even though these aren’t things we do at home. But I give them lots of whole grains, sourdough and kefir and kombucha wherever I can slip it in, and I talk talk talk all the time about the importance of vegetables, of eliminating fake foods, the science behind gut health and what HFCS does to your body chemistry. I am laying the groundwork. It will kick in eventually. Recently, my oldest daughter was at an event where she had to stay 3 days on a college campus and had free reign at the college cafeteria. She came home saying that everything tasted like chemicals and could she please have some of my real food? And she’s been my most bitter complainer during our real food journey. Probably my biggest issue is convincing the grandparents to quit stocking pop and candy as treats for when the kids visit. Both sets live in town, so the kids visit a lot, and neither set sees any harm in a little goodie now and then (except that now and then is 2-3 times a week). If only I could train them like I have my kids…
Sarah says
Hi Kelly,
Congratulations on losing 10#s!! I am continuing to pray for your family.
Sarah
Jen says
That picture at the top has me dreaming about banana coconut butter, it tastes like frosting lol. That’s literally all I could think about while continuing to read.
Anna says
Hey Kelly, just wanted to point out that research has actually shown that high-fat diets are actually correlated with the onset of diabetes. High-sugar diets are not, ironically. You have to be really careful with lowering carbs because in the long run that actually increases fasting insulin and the inability to properly handle carbs.
I don’t like the word sugar “addiction” because I think it pathologizes something totally normal . I don’t think we’re any more addicted to sugar than to food in general. If you’re craving sugar, there is probably a reason. Once I started eating as proper balanced and nutritious diet, my sugar cravings went away, but I think I was craving it before because my body was starving, not because I was “addicted.” Also, there are plenty of healthy forms of sugar, like fruit.
ValerieH says
Can you mention where you read this? I have studied this a lot and I don’t understand how fat, which doesn’t raise insulin, could cause the pancreas to get worn out and damage the beta cells. What is the mechanism for fat to cause diabetes?
Anna says
I don’t think the mechanism is known. Correlation does not necessarily equal causation, so it could be that people with high-fat diets are more likely to be obese, and obesity is the cause. Or it could be something causative in high-fat diets (inflammation has been suggested). But either way, sugar has been pretty much cleared – it’s not causative. Type 2 diabetes doesn’t happen because the pancreas gets “worn out”, rather it’s that the body’s cells get insulin-resistant. The pancreas keeps pumping out insulin, but it’s not accepted by the cells and blood sugar rises. (Later on the pancreas can get more worn out, but that’s late-stage, not onset) Why cells could become insulin-resistant is the question, but no one really knows.
Here’s a link with some details on the studies that have been done. https://care.diabetesjournals.org/content/25/3/620.full
Teena says
Thanks for the bread suggestion. We have been going through 3 loaves a week…toast for breakfast, sandwiches for lunch or dinner, homemade croutons etc. It is only 50 cents more a loaf than the Meijer organic and is so much softer and tastier. We have converted! Continuing to pray for you 🙂
KitchenKop says
Thanks for the prayers, Teena, and I’m glad you love the bread, we do too!
Kel p.s. It was great getting together a few weeks ago, keep me posted on the homeschooling journey!