Good morning all! Today I thought I'd give you a little chuckle, or just skip this post if you aren't interested in any of this fluff stuff… (Some readers get on me for not sticking to the main topic of my blog, others tell me they like more personal stuff sometimes, you can't win!)
It all started when I began thinking about cutting my hair shorter again this spring. Kent never wants me to cut my hair though, so I thought I'd see what YOU think!
First, I'll show you my most embarrassing photo from the early days, my “red glasses era” – ACK! What in the world was I thinking with those?! This is a picture with a few of my friends from high school:
Now I'll show you one from my really short hair days, and I won't be going this short again. The quality isn't great from this old picture:
Next is another really embarrassing one. It's from when Kent and I went to the Marine Corps Ball, shortly after he got back from serving in Desert Storm. Check out the curls and the mullet, YOUZA, it's pretty scary, but remember, this was over 20 years ago:
So now I want to know what you think between these next two pictures. Do you agree with Kent, that I should keep it longer like in this recent photo? (Umm, something weird is going on with my make-up here or the lighting, just look at the hair, okay?!)
Or do you agree with me, and think I should cut it shorter like in this shot from a few years back?
Thanks for your help and for sharing your opinions, now I'll go back to the main topic around here, have a great week!
Nourished for Free says
I prefer the longer hair look on you, but I agree with some of the other comments – go with your husband’s preference!
Dina-Marie @ Cultured Palate says
That is really tough – you look great in both — the two most recent ones I mean 😉
I like your about me pic too! To pick one – I don’t think you would go wrong either way – how is that for decisiveness!
Commenter via Facebook says
I like it longer Kelly! 🙂
Debbie says
I think you should have longer hair. It looks very nice, and your husband likes it–a big plus. Strangely enough, I would like to wear my hair about shoulder length, but it has thinned over the years, so it looks better short.
Commenter via Facebook says
i think you look beautiful in both pics! i think, though, that the shorter hair gives you more of a mom/grandma look, making you look older. but i really like both. 🙂
Commenter via Facebook says
I like the shorter 2nd photo, you look younger but also it looks neat and easier to work with.
Kelly says
I like the long, or at least the style of the long better. But it’s YOUR hair. 😉
Megan says
Personally, I think the shorter hair flatters you more, though both are lovely. However, I’m not one of those woman who “does this for me”; I want to look good for my man. I would gauge by how strongly he prefers the longer hair. Some guys say they don’t want a cut but barely even notice. Either way will look great though 🙂
Jackie Vetter says
Short
Trish says
I like the longer style, it makes you look younger to me for some reason. 🙂
Cindy says
Haircuts I think the short compliments your face shape
I had big glasses in 1st and 2nd grade just like that only hot pink, my current glasses are bright red so if technology hadn’t advanced to make smaller lenses I’m sure I would currently have that exact pair on my face right now
Jenifer says
I like the ‘natural’ look of the longer hair but the shorter hair does seem to suit the shape of your face. Any way to use the style of the longer hair on a shorter cut?? (Does that make sense?)
Commenter via Facebook says
Old pictures – what fun!
Jen O says
Kelly, I really do like your current hairstyle. None of the pictures do you justice. You are SO MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL in person!!!
Tonya Scarborough says
I like the longer hair much better. I think it looks more feminine and youthful, but I think only you know how you would be most comfortable. For myself, I can’t stand not being able to put my hair back in a ponytail or bun.
Commenter via Facebook says
I agree with Kent.
Michele H says
I used to have a style very similar to pic #1 and I loved it…sadly my hairdresser moved away. Haven’t been able to find one to duplicate it, so I have let mine grow out. So, I am partial to style #1.
Leah says
I like both hair cuts.
Liz says
I like the shorter hair style a teeny bit better. It seems to be more in scale with your face and body. BUT, I always think it’s important to consider your husbands likes and dislikes. If you dislike your hair longer and find it too difficult to deal with, just tell him. He’d probably rather have a happy wife who feels confident in how she looks that someone who is always frustrated with her hair. My hair is longer right now than it’s been in years, my husband likes it and I’m finding it easier to deal with — win, win, WIN! 🙂
p.s. I love the marine corps ball picture — you both look so cute and Kelly you look as though you had about a 22″ waist!
MaryAnn says
Really like the shorter style! All men would prefer long hair on women!!! Do what pleases you! IT’S JUST HAIR. IT’LL GROW BACK!!! Tell your wonderful hubby, “A happy life, is a happy wife!” or “If mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy!” Make sure you post a picture of your decision!
Kelly M says
Kelly — Not sure of the length your hair is now….but there would be a great option between the two lengths of a reverse bob. Very chic and very updated and would be an easy care professional look. I think it would go well with the shape of your face. Think short in back with long, curvy layers framing your face in the front.
I love your blog and I have learned A LOT. I admire your faith and I am a fellow Christian. I have a different take…your body is yours. I will refrain from reference — and, fellow readers, no fights. We all get our say and Kelly deserves a peaceful blog comment trail! If you are happy with your hair and the person you see in the mirror every day, that will spill over into all of your actions and it follows you will please your husband Kent. Best wishes on your hair journey.
Elizabeth says
This is a no brainer — definitely go with your husbands preference! That is a great way to honor him! Plus it makes your face look thinner and is more feminine. You look fabulous.
Jill Newlin says
I like your hair longer.
Denise says
The rewards in going with what your husband likes are incalculable. Who else’s opinion is important? You look lovely either way!
Julie says
I like them both! But if I had to pick, I’d go short!
Erin says
I have my aromatherapy diffuser going right now with peppermint essential oil, and it really helps keep the sinuses clear and also gives me that little push to keep going during the day with its energizing properties.
Also, I think I like the short hair best!
Mary says
I love the formal attire! I see you were able to wear a bridesmaid dress a second time. . . 🙂
Kelly the Kitchen Kop says
Yes, gee, I wonder who picked those cute dresses out anyway?
Julie says
I like the shorter cut and by the way that china blue color is nice on you. However I agree with others that you want a style that is easy to maintain.
Susan says
Kelly- One time I did this same experiment with my stylist. I told her I was stuck with what to do with my hair because I had enjoyed my hair both ways. She looked at the pictures and agreed that both styles worked for me. Then she asked me which was easier to live with and I answered they both were simple enough. So then she asked me which cut made me feel sexier? And I immediately knew which style to go with! As she started cutting my hair to match the photo I chose, we talked about being moms, looking like moms and how nice it is to go on a date with your hubby and still feel hot. Important stuff for so many reasons. I want to be hot for as long as I can!
DS says
Re the red glasses. Is it the RED or the SIZE you don’t like? Those old large lenses were awful for those of us with chubby cheeks, since they fogged up. But when you get to the age of no-line bifocals, it’s a lot harder when the “sweet spots” are tiny as with today’s mingy little lenses! Your lovely smile is the “take-away” from all your photos. Styles in hair and eye-wear and clothing come and go, but a smile is always good.
Kelly the Kitchen Kop says
Both the color AND the size didn’t work on me, that’s for sure!
Maryjane says
Hairstyles: please your husband first! But I like the shorter cut *slightly* better.
Kathy L. says
Definitely go with what is the easiest to work with. Also, I had a red pair of glasses almost just like yours! My kids love to make fun of them!
Kelly the Kitchen Kop says
I still keep mine around to pull out and make us all laugh now and then. 🙂
Nancy says
Go with the style that easiest to maintain and still feminine.
DS says
I like the short do and you look great in that blue color.
deanna says
Your pix made me smile…all of them! We could be twins..in styles anyway! Even today, I keep bouncing between these two hairstyles! lol Both styles are very flattering on you. And they do grow out…I’d vote for whichever fits best into your life at the moment. Lets face it…change is good from time to time!
Kimberly says
Ok. Keep the style of pic #1 with the length of pic #2. Cute!!
Annie says
I was going to say the same thing — I like the shorter length, but nice long banges to fram your face. Both are very pretty though.
Lora says
I like the shorter version best. I enjoy your blog very much.
Linda says
I think the 2nd pic with the shorter hair looks great and I like the bangs.
Sue E. says
Personally, I think you should go back to the 80’s……hahaha! That was my time, too, you know!
My vote is the second photo, shorter hair, where you are wearing the blue blouse. Of course, this is coming from a woman whose husband loves short hair, as you also know…But really, it looks great on you. (although pleasing Kent is probably what you need to do)
Sue E.
natasha says
I like the short do. It compliments your facial features. Also, it’s just a few inches & will grow back pretty fast if you decide to grow it out again.
Teena says
I like the longer hair look. I think the bangs in the short hair picture close off your face.
Pat B. says
They are both great hairstyles, but I think the short haircut fits your face much better. Have a wonderful day!!
Dorsey says
I am a retired hairdresser and so tend to really focus more on hair. Both of your looks are lovely.You need to pick the element that is most important to you…. the longer hair makes your face look leaner…..but the shorter one makes you look younger. 🙂
Kelly the Kitchen Kop says
But in the shorter one I *was* younger – that one was 7 years ago!! LOL.
norma says
current photo looks great. Depends on the body of your hair and how much you want to do in the morning.
Jill says
Both cuts are GREAT on you–seriously, you couldn’t go wrong either way. The only thing you need to decide is which “style” fits your personality or just where you are at in life right now best. The longer one looks a little more free-spirited and very natural. The second one is a little more “professional” and “neat”. Both great looks, but also both really different looks. What kind of mood/personality do you most want to capture right now? That might be the question to answer!
mllrbb says
I was going to post exactly what Jill just did. They’re both flattering, but showing a very different style.
As for the red glasses, I guess you were channeling Sally Jessy Raphael. I had similar frames, but in brown. Those huge glasses look good on nobody…what were we thinking? I cringe at old pictures of myself.
DD20 says
They are both lovely hair cuts, so please your husband first. Biblically speaking, your body is not your own anyway 🙂 it’s his (and his is yours)! See 1 Corinthians7:4. So, go with the Lord.
Pat says
I like the short cut. Have a happy new year!
Olivia says
Had to add though that I do really like how your hair looks in your “About Me” picture.
Olivia says
You look pretty either way, but the short hair style suits the shape of your face best.